Parent only provide linear model of communication, children cannot interact to communicate with their parents. For example, she will punish if I eat snacks. I just realize mother focus health after I growing up and she never explains this reason for me because she thinks that I would not understand in childhood. She only shouted me, so I was afraid that I would remember. Mother takes control so I cannot develop autonomy, reminds me loudly and something wrong to be punished make me frightened. Mother cannot trust me; I cannot get a sense of security. This tends to result in me with low confidence, feel anxiety when face a new environment. All of these are the development obstacles that the Erikson Psychosocial theory proposed stage one and two. I am shamed and doubt my abilities.