For many of us，the idea of a family

For many of us，the idea of a family is a lot narrower than it used to be. Today children go away to college，and take up jobs wherever chances seem greatest. So instead of growing up in a family with grandparents，aunts，uncles and cousins，many of us are truly connected only to our parents and brothers.
Many kids today know little of the lives of their relatives and don't care deeply about them.
Whether we realize it or not，this feeling of being disconnected makes people feel a kind of lonely. “People need to feel connected，”says Joy Browne，a doctor in the U.S. “And they will do it in the easiest ways.”When family members aren't connected，what could be easier than forming(形成) a connection to famous people?
This isn't something unusual，of course. People cried when Mei Yanfang died in 2003. It's natural and in most ways harmless to feel that way. But that's unhealthy，because these relationships(关系) aren't two-way.
For that，we need to stay connected to our own families. Parents can help by telling their children stories about their grandparents，aunts and cousins，and by telling them the children's latest activities and interests.
We can use technology to keep connected with each other. It's easy to send e-mails to granddad Better yet，take a vacation with members of your relatives--not with any other person. A week or so of relaxing vacation can be a great way to tie up family ties. And when a bad thing happens，no one can be as helpful as your relatives. Because no matter how much we cry for the famous people，they can't be there to cry for us.

結果 (苗文) 1:

Muaj ntau lub tswv yim us，the ntawm ib tsev neeg yog narrower heev tshaj li qub. Hnub no cov me nyuam ploj los college，and mus txog cov hauj lwm peb txog qhov twg yuav zoo li loj tshaj. Thiaj tsis zuj zus nyob rau hauv ib tsev neeg nrog grandparents，aunts，uncles thiab cousins，many peb yog hais tiag txuas nrog xwb peb cov niam cov txiv thiab cov kwv tij.
Cov me nyuam muaj ntau hnub no paub tsawg ntawm lub neej rau lawv cov txheeb ze thiab tsis care tsaug txog lawv.
seb peb xam pom tias nws los not，this ces muab kaw ua rau tibneeg xav tias muaj ib yam kev kho siab. "Tus neeg yuav paub tias connected，" hais Joy Browne，a kws kho mob hauv Teb Chaws Asmeskas "thiab lawv yuav ua nyob rau hauv txoj kev uas yooj yim."Thaum twg tsev neeg tsis connected，dab tsi ua tau yooj yim dua ib tug kev twb kev txuas mus rau cov neeg nto moo forming(形成)?
no tsis yog ib yam dab tsi unusual，of thaum kawg. Cov neeg quaj thaum Mei Yanfang tuag nyob rau xyoo 2003. Nws yog ntuj thiab ntau txoj kev uas txawm mus hnov li ntawd mas. Tiam sis qhov unhealthy，because no relationships(关系) yuav tsis two-way.
that，we tau nyob connected rau peb tsev neeg. Cov niam txiv pab tau qhia lawv cov me nyuam dab neeg txog lawv cov grandparents，aunts thiab cov cousins，and qhia lawv tus me nyuam tseeb ua si thiab nyiam.
peb tau siv technology kom sib connected. Nws tseem xa e-mails mus granddad yet，take zoo ib so uas muaj neeg koom los ntawm koj cov kwv tij--tsis txhob qhia rau lwm tus neeg yooj yim. Ib lub lis piam los so relaxing li ntawd yuav yog ib txoj kev zoo los pav ties tsev neeg. Thiab thaum twg tus phem tshaj plaws happens，no ib tug yuav tau pes tsawg raws li koj cov kwv tij. Vim tias txawm ntau npaum li cas peb quaj rau tus naas ej people，they tsis tau muaj los quaj rau peb.