I tried to be civil in all my relationship because Life is too short for pettiness or too much pouting. Work together but keep your self. Laugh and never forget how to stay in touch, it's easier to weather the inevitable tough times that way. I learned that communication is key. Even when you love someone, differences in needs between two people is inevitable. Letting your partner know what you need and finding out what your partner needs at the deepest level is critical to a lasting partnership.