Although this is a very selfish thought, it is impossible to gain everyone's love in the things that you do But in reality, people feel that they live in order to give and gain love, and to earn acceptance every action that they take. In the end, it's a fact that people want to give up on life especially when they feel that they haven't received any love from anyone, or when they feel as if they haven't gained acceptance as a human being. When was thinking why can't anyone understand me? It's so disappointing an adult told me this People have the right to hate you or not. Why is t that you're trying to dominate over this? You have no control over their opinions. But you can however choose to be hurt, to be affected or not by these individuals. That is your opinion and your right Although received lots of love, l received an equal amount of careless hatred thrown at me which caused me to explode, suffer a lot inside, and make excuses. I hated being hurt so l put up all sorts of defense mechanisms to protect myself.