For many of us，the idea of a family

For many of us，the idea of a family is a lot narrower than it used to be. Today children go away to college，and take up jobs wherever chances seem greatest. So instead of growing up in a family with grandparents，aunts，uncles and cousins，many of us are truly connected only to our parents and brothers.
Many kids today know little of the lives of their relatives and don't care deeply about them.
Whether we realize it or not，this feeling of being disconnected makes people feel a kind of lonely. “People need to feel connected，”says Joy Browne，a doctor in the U.S. “And they will do it in the easiest ways.”When family members aren't connected，what could be easier than forming(形成) a connection to famous people?
This isn't something unusual，of course. People cried when Mei Yanfang died in 2003. It's natural and in most ways harmless to feel that way. But that's unhealthy，because these relationships(关系) aren't two-way.
For that，we need to stay connected to our own families. Parents can help by telling their children stories about their grandparents，aunts and cousins，and by telling them the children's latest activities and interests.
We can use technology to keep connected with each other. It's easy to send e-mails to granddad Better yet，take a vacation with members of your relatives--not with any other person. A week or so of relaxing vacation can be a great way to tie up family ties. And when a bad thing happens，no one can be as helpful as your relatives. Because no matter how much we cry for the famous people，they can't be there to cry for us.

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對我們許多人來說，一個家庭是被推到了比以前要多窄。今天孩子們去大學，和從事的工作，無論機遇看似很大。因此，而不是在一個與祖父母、 阿姨、 叔叔和堂兄妹的家庭長大，我們很多人真正只連接到我們的父母和兄弟。很多孩子今天知之甚少的他們的親屬的生活，並不在意這些。無論是否我們意識不到，這個感覺被斷開使人感到一種寂寞。"人們需要心有靈犀，"說喜悅布朗，在美國的一名醫生"而他們會在最簡單的方法。當家庭成員不連接的情況時，有什麼能比 forming(形成) 連接到著名的人更容易？這當然並不是不尋常的東西。當梅豔芳 2003 年去世，人們就哭了。它是自然方式和最無害的那種感覺。但這是不健康的因為這些 relationships(關係) 不是雙向的。為此，我們需要保持連接到我們自己的家庭。父母可以説明通過講述他們的孩子的故事，如他們的祖父母、 姑姑和表兄弟姐妹，，告訴他們孩子們的最新活動和利益。我們可以使用技術來保持相互聯繫的。它很容易發送電子郵件到爺爺更重要的是，與你的親戚 — — 不與任何其他人的成員休一次假。一個星期左右的放鬆可以是假期的一個偉大的方式來配合了家庭關係。當一件壞事情發生，沒有人能有用，因為你的親戚。因為無論有多少我們哭的著名人物，他們不可能是有為我們而哭泣。