Lastly, how can we distinguish between what we can and cannot change? There’s a
simple process. Any time you’re not sure whether something in your life needs to be changed or allowed to be as it is, make a decision to let go of the feeling of wanting to change it. If you let go of that feeling, and it’s something that cannot be changed, you’ll find yourself effortlessly accepting it as it is. On the other hand, if it’s something that does need to be changed, letting go helps you shift easily into action to get things done.