You may not want to include someone in an upcoming social activity, Moonchild, because maybe that person drives you a bit crazy. You may have reasoned that you have the right to a little "me time," but you know that if you leave someone out you won't feel very good about yourself and that could ruin your fun anyway. Make up your mind that you won't let that person push your buttons, and try to find something likable in the individual - everyone has merit. Look for the light within.