My love,
It is 5:00 am local time in France now and i am up from the sleeping
bed making arrangement to start today work, after writing you this
email, i will go and get ready for my bath, etc. I want you to know
that your part of my lif now , thank you so much for accepting my
daughter. I want you to know that the reason why i have not married is
because i don't want to marry a bad woman, it is not easy to see and
meet a good woman so that is why, the few i meet after dating with
them for some time, i understand that what i wanted in life is very
much different from what they want so we cut the relationship and
since than i have being looking. My date of birth is 1965 and i am in
good shape so you don't worry about my wright and my height is 5.6 fit
and i hope i am not too short for your liking.
I want you to know that the only reason why I've been here ready to
devote time to make all the necessary communication is because I would
love have a summat partner and is my desire to get closer to you and
see if there’s chemistry to yoke heart together because nothing works
until someone work on it. What I am looking for is someone who will
get to know me more deeply, whom would like me as I am not for what I
have, am tired of being lonely, who desires a sincere relationship,
who is willing to love true love , who is willing to merge her soul
with mine and her heart with mine. Someone to share and spend the rest
of my life with.
You see, I feel there are few very basic but essential elements of a
relationship.. (1) Identifying the need to be in a relationship (2)
decision and readiness to contribute to it success 3) HONESTY (4)
TRUST (5) MUTUAL RESPECT, (6)DEVOTIONAL COMMITMENT WITH A READINESS TO
MAKSACRIFICES. knowing fully well that a Gold must go through fire
before it could be purified and graded. They are also to a degree
sequential. I may choose First honesty and then respect. They go
hand in hand and without them any type of relationship; business,
personal, family, whatever, is bound to fail. Anyone who is dishonest
cannot be respected. Without showing respect, He or she is unlikely
to be treated with honesty.
Those are fundamental to trust which like respect is earned because
honesty was first and was given. When trust is built and respect is
earned and they are given and shared, then love and happiness is
inevitable. When your love and trust were given, it’s more important
than receiving a treasure. Then commitment becomes a part of the
relationship. At that point, you promise and believe it would be
forever. You can do this because you love and trust the other person
and are committed to making a life to share together. I will try to be
more specific. First, no one is perfect, especially me. I know this
though; when the right person or one whom is right person comes into
your life you will know truly. A connection happens and you just
can't, or won't let go of them. Your whole life changes and all of
the emptiness begin to fill up. It starts with the first touch, the
first time you look into each other’s eyes, the very first time for
everything becomes a moment to remember. Sometimes it happens
quickly, other times it takes years.
I don't pretend to have the wisdom to explain or understand. This is
certain, if you observe consciously, you would find out when a one is
wrong for you. I truly believe it is easier to know if someone is not
right for you than to know if someone is... I am happy you would
understand my purpose of being here is all about you enable us to know
more about each other, perhaps I'm willing to nurture this friendship
to grow in the direction of a rewarding and a long lasting if not,
everlasting relationship in all sincerity. Now are we in the same
train? Hope to read from you soonest.
have a nice day
Baraghin