They do not ask whether this sin or that objectionable difference is so vile, so intolerable, that the relationship must be abandoned. For them, exit and expulsion are never real options, and thus they need not determine which sinners must be endured or which sins they must help bear. The tolerant will make these distinctions; justice demands it.23 24 But those who have been moved by the Holy Spirit to love God and neighbor, and who judge the objectionable differences of another in accord with divine wisdom and in the spirit of this love, will not. For them, all sins, all objectionable differences, must be endured with patience. No sinner generates burdens that are, in principle, unbearable, that the forbearing are unwilling to endure. They may, of course, fall short of this ideal, but it remains an ideal nevertheless.