Tears can ruin make-up, bring conversation to a stop, and give you a runny nose. They can leave you embarrassed and without energy. However,crying is a fact of life…and tears are veryuseful. (1)These create a film over the eye's surface. This film contains a substance that protects your eyes against infection.
Tears relieve stress,but we tend to fight them for all sortsof reasons. "People worry about showing their emotions. They’re afraid that once they lose control, they’ll never get it back,”explains psychologist Dorothy Rowe. (2) As adults we still fear the consequences of showing emotions.”
Almost any emotion—good or bad, happy or sad—can cause tears. Crying is a way that we release built-up emotions. Tears help you when you feel you are ready to explode because of very strong feelings. (3)
When some people become very stressed, however, they can’t cry. They may be feeling shock,anger, fear, or grief, but they repress the emotion. “Everyone has the need to cry,” says psychotherapist Vera Diamond. Sometimes in therapy sessions, patients participate in crying exercise (4) Diamond says it’s best to cry in safe, private places,like under the bed coversor in the car. That’s because many people get uncomfortable when others cry in front of them. In fact,they may be repressing their own need to cry.
In certain situations, such as at work, tears are not appropriate. (5) “But once you are safely behind closed doors, don't just cry,” Diamond says, she suggests that you act out the whole situation again and be as noisy and angry as you like. It will help you feel better. “And,” she adds, “once your tears have released thestress, you can begin to think of logical way to deal with the problem.”
Tears are a sign of our ability to feel. You should never be afraid to cry.
眼泪可以毁了化妆,让停止交谈,给你流鼻涕的鼻子。他们可以让你尴尬和没有能量。然而,哭是生活的事实......,眼泪是很有用。() 1这些在眼睛表面创建一部电影。这部电影包含了物质,保护眼睛不受感染。眼泪缓解压力,但我们往往争取所有的多种原因。"人们担心显示他们的情绪。他们害怕,一旦他们失去控制,他们弄不回来了,"解释了心理学家多萝西 · 罗。(2) 作为成年人我们仍然担心表露感情的后果"。几乎任何的情感 — — 好或坏,快乐或伤心 — — 可以让他们掉眼泪。哭是我们释放建成的情感方式。眼泪帮助你当你觉得你是准备爆炸因为非常强烈的感情。() 3当有些人变得非常紧张时,但是,他们不会哭。他们可能感觉震惊、 愤怒、 恐惧或悲伤,但他们压抑的情感。"每个人都有必要去哭,"说,心理治疗师维拉钻石。有时在疗程,患者参与哭练习 (4) 钻石说最好是哭泣在安全,私人的地方,像在床上 coversor 在车下。这是因为很多人感到不舒服,当别人在他们面前哭。事实上,他们可能会压抑自己需要哭泣。In certain situations, such as at work, tears are not appropriate. (5) “But once you are safely behind closed doors, don't just cry,” Diamond says, she suggests that you act out the whole situation again and be as noisy and angry as you like. It will help you feel better. “And,” she adds, “once your tears have released thestress, you can begin to think of logical way to deal with the problem.”Tears are a sign of our ability to feel. You should never be afraid to cry.
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