Hi 旖,
Thanks for your lovely email again and your frank disclosure of your circumstances. If I may say so, I see great opportunity with you to progress smoothly towards a lasting romance, though I know you are not as open as I am to accept love easily. I don't mind you are still in a relationship. We can still start our romance now. Right?
Maybe it is time for me to talk more about myself and hopefully develop some more topics for indepth exchanges. I am now living in the US. I married once, but have been single for many years now. For the past 15 years, I have been travelling extensive for my marketing job. In Europe and North America. My life has been rather nomadic, as you could imagine. Though I enjoy travelling because it gives me a lot of exposure to people and culture, I do feel lonely from time to time. Have you ever waken up in a hotel one night, not knowing where you are? I have had many such nights in my life over the past 10 years.
I really hope I could find that special someone -- the "matched opposite" so that we can enjoy being silly together and keep the sparks flying. So far, I feel very comfortable chatting with you. I just hope you could open up yourself to let me into your heart. I would like to warm it with my love. And I hope you could also warm my lonely heart with your passion.
It is not uncommon for a girl like you to doubt whether you are suitable for me. Many people think I must be a playboy. Well, I do admit that I have had a few intimate relationships before. And I have a lot of opportunity crossing paths with attractive ladies. But so far, I have not really found someone to settle down with. I don't think it is just my problem. As a psychologist once said: a man marries a woman hoping that she won't change; a woman marries a man hoping that she will change. As for me, I will marry a woman if she can accept me as I am and is willing to explore a new life with me.
It's this belief that I always want to engage in frank and direct communication with you. I might ask you very private questions. What I want to achieve is to really probe you in depth to know you better. I am not the kind of man who marries easily and divorce immediately if the marriage turns sour. I would rather invest more time on knowing a person better before thinking about marriage.
I hope by now you have a very thorough understanding of me. I only write this to you so far because others have been filtered out by my strange behaviours. I hope you could accept me as what I am. I sincerely hope you could venture out into a romance with me. While I can't promise you a result, I can assure you that I will do my best to make the journey enjoyable and memorable.
Hugs and kisses,
Bee