The one thing I’ll always fondly remember about Heidi was her playful uninhibited exuberance. Stunningly beautiful, utterly submissive and with a kinky unquenchable masochistic need for pain, Heidi was the first submissive I’d met who truly didn’t see the need for limits or safe words, she felt they were artificial constraints that only got in the way and lessened the terrifying authenticity of the moment.
I’ve often wondered if Heidi had known how that evening, her last, would end, would she still have refused a safe word.