I'm a (surprisingly) passionate person with my fair share of intelligence and a dry, subtle humor. I'm often quiet, especially in social situations, and can appear overly serious, but I can be silly with the right person. Although I tend to set high goals for myself I'm more easy-going in some ways than people realize. I like to think I am somewhat creative, but I also tend to focus on technical details. My sons are a central part of my life. I like cooking and biking and tennis and taking walks. And I'm not in bad physical condition for such an old guy! But please know this: I have very little money, so we should not waste our time if this is important to you (which is understandable).
我的理想对象: Close communication, a deep feeling of sharing what's inside us, is what I crave the most. We must be able to talk honestly about all topics and to accept each other even when we don't agree. Is this possible when we speak different languages? My tendency is toward "love conquers all" but my experience tells me this is foolishly optimistic. My partner also must be energetic and have a positive attitude. She takes good care of herself (but lets me help take care of her, also). She has some interests or friends that are the same as mine, but others that are all her own. She enjoys being sexy, and occasionally surprises me. She likes music and arts and exercise or sports (of some sort). She likes to challenge herself and me, but is also supportive in difficult times and in successful times. She understands that sustaining our relationship requires being open-minded and putting real effort into making things work. Whether or not she has children is not important, but she must accept my circumstances as well.