Conversation begins almost the moment we come into contact with another and continues throughout the day with the aid of cell phones and computers.However, we are so often absorbed in conversation that we lose sight of its true purpose and value.
One important aspect of a good conversation is the words used to express thoughts and feelings.We are full of deep thoughts and strong emotions,yet our vocabularies are not enough for this expression,and many make little effort to expand that.Perhaps you see a movie that touches you deeply,yet you have the following conversation:“So, what did you think of the film?” ”Oh, my Cod,it was so sad.I swear.1 went through using up a box of tissues.I was in tears.”This dialogue is hardly an effective way of expressing feelings.It gives no sign of how or why the movie truly affected you.Such commonly-used phrases are certainly not enough to describe a deeply moving experience.However,not only must you try to avoid overused words, you must also be careful in your selection.The purpose of expanding vocabulary is not to use the largest or most impressive words,but to find those best suited.
What is lacking in many conversations is the ability to talk to another rather than just talking with that person.A thoughtful person will find that even in the most ordinary of conversations,there are a thousand questions waiting to be asked if you have courage and a desire for change, in order to seek out the person behind the mask.Good conversations should not be made up of nonsense,but of a meeting of two sharing the human condition.It should bring a purer understanding of others and offer a release of emotions more than drive away unpleasant thoughts or kill time.