Criticism: A high percentage of negative as compared to positive comments remarks and nonverbal communications.
Defensiveness: Taking comments and criticism personally and responding to the feelings they created, rather than to the behavior they describe. This included rehearsing defensive thoughts such as “I’m not going to take it any more,” or “Next time he/she says that, I am going to say…”
Stonewalling: Punishing a partner with the “silent treatment” by clamming up, refusing to respond and holding in anger, resentment, hurt feelings, and the real reasons for refusing to talk.
Contempt: Showing scorn, anger, and rejection through verbal and nonverbal means and generally condemning the actions, motives, or personality of the other.
Criticism: A high percentage of negative as compared to positive comments remarks and nonverbal communications.Defensiveness: Taking comments and criticism personally and responding to the feelings they created, rather than to the behavior they describe. This included rehearsing defensive thoughts such as “I’m not going to take it any more,” or “Next time he/she says that, I am going to say…”Stonewalling: Punishing a partner with the “silent treatment” by clamming up, refusing to respond and holding in anger, resentment, hurt feelings, and the real reasons for refusing to talk.Contempt: Showing scorn, anger, and rejection through verbal and nonverbal means and generally condemning the actions, motives, or personality of the other.
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