Chenli you're breaking my heart. I don't believe that it will work between us. We are too different, to set in our ways. I certainly don't want to make you unhappy, but you need to hear my words. Do you remember when you made all the fuss about the dog being in the bed? That really upset you. I told you yesterday that there is 100 things in this house I feel that will upset you. This situation isn't easy. It's not like you live down the street or across town and we can get together and see how things work. I have no money for plane tickets and neither do you. Besides you're going to France in July and you need to save your money for that. You are like me we don't have enough time or money to have a partner. I think we are destined to live the rest of our lives single. Dale