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The Reason You Attract People Who Are Bad For You ( And Why It’s Not Your Fault)

People come and go
One of the greatest ideas that helps us grow throughout our time here on Earth is the idea that people will come in and out of our lives for whatever reason.
Sure, most of us probably have a few friends that we will have until the day we die, childhood friends that came together simply out of proximity and familiarity. But some of the most life-changing and profound relationships happen with people who are only in our lives for a brief second.
There are the people that leave a significant and lasting impact on our lives. And they seemingly come out of nowhere, as if the universe knew that the two of you needed each other, if only for a short period of time.
These are the ones that change you, that you will never forget, but also the ones that you recognize cannot stay in your life long-term.

These seemingly toxic people are right for you at specific moments in your life.
The idea of true love and finding that one person out there who perfectly complements you is quite prominent in the world today, and many people often take vows to commit themselves to a specific union or partnership for all of eternity.
This is not a bad thing, but it should also be understood that having different romantic experiences throughout one’s lifetime is important to natural, formative growth. The type of growth that helps us understand who we are and what we want out of life.
This is why it might feel like we’re attracting all of the wrong people into our lives, when in reality, we’re doing so for a reason: they’re right for us in that moment of time.
If something that started out beautifully and passionately has turned into something that is negative and toxic, it means that you no longer need them in your life, but that you needed each other only for a second or two to help you along in your journey.

Do what’s best for you
One of the biggest things that people struggle with all over the world is being able to stay true to who you are and what you value. It can be quite easy to indulge in the needs of other people while entirely ignoring your own. This is unhealthy and, while it might seem like a good gesture, you’re hurting yourself in order to help others.
As you become more and more self-reliant, using your own critical thinking to make decisions that are in your best interest, you stop attracting people that are wrong for you.
The more you practice being true to yourself, the harder it is to indulge in people that are toxic, which opens up space to bring in all of the right people.

結果 (英文) 3:

你吸引那些对你不好的人（为什么不是你的错）的原因人们来了又走一个伟大的想法，帮助我们在整个我们的时间在这里地球的想法是，人们将进入和离开我们的生活，无论什么原因。当然，我们大多数人可能有几个朋友，我们将有，直到一天，我们死了，童年的朋友们一起简单的接近和熟悉。但一些最有生命的变化和深刻的关系发生在那些只有我们的生活的人短暂的第二。有人对我们的生活产生了重大而深远的影响。他们似乎是无处出现的，因为如果宇宙知道你们两个彼此需要，如果只有一个很短的时间。这些是改变你的人，你永远不会忘记，但你认识的人不能停留在你的生活长期。这些看似有毒的人是正确的，为你在特定的时刻，在你的生活中。真正的爱的想法，发现一个人在那里谁完美的补充你是相当突出的世界上，今天，许多人往往采取承诺，致力于一个特定的联盟或合作伙伴关系的所有永恒。这不是一件坏事，但它也应该明白，在一生中有不同的浪漫经历是很重要的，自然的，形成性的成长。增长的类型，有助于我们了解我们是谁和我们想要的生活。这就是为什么它可能会觉得我们吸引了所有的错误的人进入我们的生活，当在现实中，我们这样做是为了一个原因：他们是正确的，我们在那一刻的时间。如果一些开始美丽和热情的东西变成了消极和有毒的东西，这意味着你不再需要他们在你的生活中，但你需要彼此只有第二或两个，以帮助你在你的旅程。为你做什么最适合你世界上最重要的事情之一就是能够忠实于你是谁，你的价值是什么。它可以很容易地沉迷于其他人的需求，而完全忽略你自己的。这是不健康的，而这似乎是一个很好的姿态，你伤害自己，以帮助别人。当你变得越来越自我依赖，用你自己的批判性思维来做出你最感兴趣的决定时，你不再吸引那些对你有错的人。你越是实践自己的真实，就越是沉迷于那些有毒的人，打开了空间，带来了所有的权利人。