你喜欢自己吗 你喜欢自己吗？是真喜欢，还是表面说说而已？ 上学时，我们

你喜欢自己吗
你喜欢自己吗？是真喜欢，还是表面说说而已？
上学时，我们刻苦学习，一心想成为老师眼中的优等生，父母亲戚中的骄傲，其他同龄人中的榜样。如果在班里老师喜欢，同学待见，基本上就是三好生了；工作后，当然要让领导喜欢，跟同事搞好关系，如果还要跟众多客户打交道，更要讨客户的喜欢，这样在职场中才能站稳脚跟，立于不败之地，也会为未来的升迁、发展铺好道路；恋爱时，让对象喜欢是必须的，但还有一个不可忽视的问题就是，男的要让未来的岳父岳母喜欢，女的要让未来的婆婆公公喜欢。有时候，让对方父母喜欢起着至关重要的作用，有太多被拆散的有情人不就是因为父母不喜欢？不喜欢长相、不喜欢家庭背景、不喜欢品德修养……生活中，各方面更不能松懈，在家里要让老婆（丈夫）孩子喜欢，在外面要让朋友喜欢，让别人喜欢似乎是我们一生的追求。
而实际上，让每个人都喜欢你，和十全十美一样是不可能的事。但是有一句话说得很有道理：一个连自己都不喜欢的人，如何让别人喜欢呢？所以我在一开头问你是否喜欢自己，我们在忙着让别人喜欢的同时有没有问过自己这个问题呢？
现实中有太多不喜欢自己的人，他们不喜欢自己的长相，不喜欢自己的工作，不喜欢自己的家庭，甚至自暴自弃，自杀自残。即便没有这么极端，我们也很少见到标榜喜欢自己的人。要接受自己，欣赏自己，爱自己，这是多么大、多么难的一门功课啊。不要说年少时候，即便是成年以后，大多数人都做不到这一点。有人直到进入暮年，经历过太多风雨、得失之后，才会知道关注自身，做自己，喜欢自己，并爱惜自己。然而，似乎晚矣。
换个角度看自己，你就会发现自己的优点和长处。假如讨厌自己做事前怕狼后怕虎，证明你做事想得很周到；假如讨厌自己总是自以为是，证明你是一个充满自信的人；假如讨厌自己做事没主见，证明自己是一个可以听取别人意见的人。逆向思考可以帮助我们喜欢上自己。要知道为了某个人而去特意成为那样的人，只是有可能得到那个人的喜爱罢了，但是一个由衷喜欢自己的人从骨子里散发出的自爱和自信，能帮他留住每个人的眼光。所以不必一味讨好别人，做好自己，做喜欢自己的自己是关键。
你喜欢自己吗？搞明白了这个问题再去想“别人喜欢我吗？”人生或许更加有意义。

結果 (中文) 3:

Do you like yourself, do you like yourself? Is it true love, or is it just the surface? When we go to school, we study hard, we want to be a top student in the eyes of the teacher, the pride of parents and relatives, other people in their peers. If in the class liked by the teacher, students like, basically is Miyoshi students. After work, of course, to let the leaders like, with my colleagues do a good job, if but also with many customers to deal with, more to please the customers like, so in the workplace in order to gain a firm foothold, remain unbeaten, for future promotion, development road; love, let objects like is a must,But there is a problem that can not be ignored is that the man wants to make the future father-in-law mother-in-law like, a woman to let the future mother-in-law father-in-law like. Sometimes, let the other parents like plays a crucial role, there is too much to be apart of lovers is not because parents don't like? Don't like appearance, don't like family background, don't like moral cultivation...... Life, the more can not be relaxed, in the home to let his wife (husband) children like, in the outside to let friends like, let others like it seems that we are the pursuit of life. In fact, it is impossible to make everyone like you, and it is impossible to be perfect.But there is a saying that is very reasonable: a person that you don't like, how to let others like it? So I asked at the beginning if you like yourself, we are busy to let people like you at the same time have not asked the question?
reality have too many don't like themselves. They don't like their looks, don't like your work, don't like his own family, and even despair suicide self mutilation. Even if not so extreme, we have seldom seen the person who likes to be himself. To accept yourself, to appreciate yourself, love yourself, this is how big, how difficult a lesson ah. Don't say you were young,Most people can't do it even if it's an adult. Until the person to enter the twilight years, experienced too much wind and rain, gains and losses, will know pay attention to their own, to do their own, like yourself, and cherish their own. However, it seems that late. Look at yourself, and you will find your strengths and your strengths. If you hate their work before the fear of the wolf tiger scared that you do things very thoughtful; if you hate yourself always thinks that you are a people full of confidence; if you hate yourself not assertive work to prove that he is a can listen to the opinions of others. Reverse thinking can help us to love ourselves.To know in order to someone to deliberately become that kind of person, it has only been possible to get the man's love bale, but a sincere love themselves from the bones exudes the self-respect and self-confidence, he can help to keep everyone's eyes. So don't have to please others, do yourself, do like you is the key. Do you like yourself? To understand this problem and then think "people like me?" Life may be more meaningful.