I believe that one of the best ways

I believe that one of the best ways to connect with people and build quality relationships is through making conversation. Although most people can hold a conversation, only a few are smooth when they talk. I have discovered five simple and effective ways to be a smooth talker. Here they are：

Talk slowly

Generally, good talkers don’t rush into a conversation. 1.____ They act as if they have all the time in the world. This makes them come off as centered and collected. Model this way of talking and you will create the same effect.

Hold more eye contact

Most people keep eye contact about 2/3 of the time or less when they talk. 2.____ This will convey confidence and interest in interacting with them.

3.____

People with good conversation skills tend to notice the kind of things that the average person doesn’t notice, and to bring such details into the conversation. They may notice and point out an interesting ring on the other person’s hand, a certain foreign accent, or a certain voice tone they use when saying a name. Thus, such individuals impress people in a very elegant manner.

Express Your emotions

4._____ Express your feelings about those facts. Keep in mind that it is at the emotional level that people connect best.

Use the best words

The ability to talk smoothly has a lot to do with choosing the precise words to convey your precise feelings or thoughts. 5._____ It will help you develop a way with words and allow you to express yourself more easily.

Conversational skills don’t improve just like that. It takes time, practice and the ability to learn at a rapid rate from your own experiences.

A．Don’t just present the facts, you’re not a newspaper.

B．It’s a very good idea to hold eye contact just a bit more than that.

C．Notice the details.

D．It is important to improve conversational skills.

E．Offer interesting news.

F．They take their time when they reflect on something and when they say it out loud.

G．Develop your vocabulary and practice communicating as accurately as possible.

 

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結果 (中文) 1:

我相信，和别人交往和建立质量关系的最好方法之一是通过谈话。虽然大多数人可以交谈，只有少数是光滑的当他们谈。我发现了五个简单有效的方法要能说会道。他们在这里:慢慢地说一般来说，健谈不要急着谈话。1.___ 他们表现得好像他们在世上所有的时间。这使得他们脱去一样居中和收集。这种方式说话，和你的模型将创建相同的效果。保持更多的眼神交流的大多数人保持眼睛接触约 2/3 的时间或少当他们说话。2.___ 这会传达信心和兴趣与它们进行交互。3.____好的谈话技巧的人往往注意到的东西，一般人不会注意到，并将这些细节到谈话。他们可能会注意到并指出有趣的戒指，对其他人的手，某些外国口音或时说一个名字，他们使用的某些语音语调。因此，这种人给人印象非常优雅的方式。表达你的情绪4.___ 关于这些事实表达你的感受。请记住，它是在情绪人们连接最好的水平。使用最合适的词顺利地说话的能力有很多跟选择字眼来传达你的精确的情感或思想。5.___，它将帮助您开发遣词造句和让你更容易表达自己。Conversational skills don’t improve just like that. It takes time, practice and the ability to learn at a rapid rate from your own experiences.A．Don’t just present the facts, you’re not a newspaper.B．It’s a very good idea to hold eye contact just a bit more than that.C．Notice the details.D．It is important to improve conversational skills.E．Offer interesting news.F．They take their time when they reflect on something and when they say it out loud.G．Develop your vocabulary and practice communicating as accurately as possible. 试题答案

結果 (中文) 3:

我相信与人建立联系的最佳途径之一是通过交谈。虽然大多数人可以举行一次谈话，但只有少数人会顺利当他们说话。我发现要能说会道五简单而有效的方法。它们是：

慢慢谈

一般，好说话的人不要急于对话。1。____他们就算拥有世界上所有的时间。这使他们以集中和收集。这样的谈话方式，你会产生同样的效果。-持有更多的眼睛接触，大多数人保持眼睛接触约2 / 3的时间或更少，当他们交谈。2。____这将与他们的信心和兴趣。

3。____

有良好的谈话技巧的人往往会注意到普通人没有注意到的事情，并将这些细节融入到谈话中去。他们可能会注意到对方的手上有一个有趣的戒指，一个外国的口音，或者说是他们在说一个名字时使用的某种声音。因此，这样的人以非常优雅的方式打动人。表达你的情绪

4。_____表达你对这些事实的感受。记住，它是在感情层面上，人们最好的连接。用最好的话，说话的能力，顺利地有很多做与选择的准确的话来传达你的精确的感情或想法。5。_____将帮助你开发的方式的话，使你更容易地表达自己。

会话技能不提高就这样。它需要时间、实践，从自己的经验快速学习的能力。

不要只是陈述事实，你不报。

这是一个很好的主意保持目光的接触就多一点。

c.notice细节。

D.是重要的提高会话能力。

e.offer

有趣的新闻。他们把自己的时间当他们思考的东西，当他们大声说出来。

g.develop词汇量，练习沟通尽可能准确。

 

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