I have a lot of experience with my babysitter children~
They are often rebelling against me.. especially when they need to brush their teeth or go to bed..
They often refuse to do these things, and they ask me (I don't want to sleep... can I stay downstairs for 30 more minutes?)
I will use harsh language to make them listen to me..
But I won't hit them ~
I don't want the children to become afraid of me.. this is not necessary ~
If I use harsh language with a loud voice, they will also listen to me ~
This is enough (in my opinion)