Do you ever hear yourself think,"It

Do you ever hear yourself think,"It doesn't matter"? I have come to understand that I think this way.It
may be because I think I should do something,and I can also accept that it is unimportant.Sometimes I see negative things going on around me and think it doesn't matter.As I started working on changing this in
myself,I came up with something that really works for me.
Not everything can intensely matter to us,or we will drive ourselves mad with concern and worry.
However,because procrastination(拖延)causes so many troubles in our lives,we can benefit from one
simple question.
When I think I should do something that perhaps I don't really feel like doing,I may think it doesn't
matter right now.Say,for example,that you think that you need to have your roof repaired.Then you think I should call someone and have it fixed.There may be many reasons or excuses and mixed emotions behind
the thought.Whatever you feel,you can convince yourself or accept that it doesn't matter.Ask yourself this question,"When will it matter?"After you answer this question,you may become motivated(受鼓舞的)to
take the necessary steps.By asking and answering,this question can actually make you least resistant to
accomplish what you want.
I think that everything matters in life；some things just matter less than other things.Saying "It doesn't
matter"or"I don't care"is a lie.If something is bothering you,it is because it matters to you.Therefore,the next time you think something doesn't matter,try the followup question.Perhaps the thing matters to you because you can see the consequence of ignoring it.Maybe by using the followup question you will see that it
"matters" to you now,and avoiding the issue is unlikely to make it matter less.
Taking action toward what matters to you is what makes the difference in your life.You have your
reasons for saying"It doesn't matter"and asking when it will matter can help.I hope this suggestion will help you as much as it has helped me.

結果 (中文) 1:

你听说过自己认为，"没关系"吗?我已经来理解，我认为这种方式。它可能是因为我认为我应该做些什么，我也可以接受，并不重要。有时我看到负面的事情发生在我周围，并认为没关系。当我开始着手改变了这个在我自己，我赶上了真正适合我的东西。并非一切都可以强烈地关系到我们，或我们会让自己发疯关切和担心。然而，因为拖延 (场) 在我们的生活中导致很多麻烦，我们可以受益于一个简单的问题。当我认为我应该做一些，也许我真的不想做时，我可能认为它不现在的问题。说，举个例子，你认为你需要有你的屋顶修一修。那么你认为我应该打电话给某人，有它固定。可能有很多理由或借口和背后的五味的杂陈思想。无论你感觉到，你可以说服自己或接受也没关系。问问自己这个问题，"当会要紧吗?"你回答了这个问题后，你可能会成为动机 (受鼓舞的) 到采取必要的步骤。通过提问和回答，这个问题可以让你少耐完成你想要什么。我认为一切事情在生活中; 有些只是事情不比其他东西。说"它不重要"或者"不关心"是个谎言。如果有什么在困扰你，那是因为对你很重要。因此，下次你觉得东西没关系，试试随访问题。也许是对你重要，因为你可以看到无视它的后果。也许通过使用随访问题你会看到它"事项"到现在，你和避免这一问题不可能使它不重要。采取行动朝着对你重要的事情是什么使你的人生与众不同。你有你说句"没关系"，并要求当没关系的原因可以帮助。我希望这项建议将帮助你尽可能多的它帮助了我。

結果 (中文) 3:

你有没有听过自己的想法，“没关系”？我已经明白，我想这样，也许是因为我认为我应该做些什么，我也可以接受，这是不重要的，有时我看到负面的事情发生在我周围，认为这并不重要。我开始工作，改变这在我自己，我提出了一些真正适合我的东西。不是所有的事情都可以强烈地影响我们，或者我们将自己疯狂的关注和担忧。
然而，因为拖延（拖延）在我们的生活中造成了这么多的麻烦，我们可以从一个简单的问题

受益。当我觉得我应该做的事情，也许我真的不想做，我可以认为它不
物说，例如现在，你认为你需要修理屋顶，然后你觉得我应该打电话给某人，你可能会有很多理由或借口和混合情绪，无论你觉得，你可以说服自己或接受，这并不重要，问自己这个问题，“什么时候会有关系？”在回答这个问题后，你可能会主动去
（受鼓舞的）采取必要的措施，通过提问和回答，这个问题可以使你对生活有最不可抗拒的东西，我觉得生活中的一切问题，有些事情只是比其他事情更重要。说“这不是什么”或者“我不在乎”是一个谎言。如果有什么困扰你的话，那是因为它关系到你。所以，下次你觉得没有关系的事情，尝试后续问题。也许这件事对你很重要因为你可以忽视它的后果。也许通过后续的问题，你会发现它
”的问题“你现在，和避免的问题，是不可能让它不那么重要。
采取行动对你来说是什么使你的生活你有你的
差异。说“这并不重要”，问什么时候会有帮助，我希望这个建议能帮助你尽可能多的帮助我。