Wanting equates to lack. It does not equal having. Our lives are limited by our tendency to focus on the struggle that leads up to having, rather than having itself. When we let go of wanting, we therefore feel more like we can have. We also notice a corresponding increase in what we actually do have. Anyone who’s ever been in sales knows that when you want to make the sale, it’s often much more difficult. Conversely, when you feel like you don’t need the sale, you often make it. That’s because the most powerful place to create what we choose is from the position that it’s “okay” whether we get it or not. This model applies to all areas of our lives.