It’s tempting to spend the first few days at a new job by yourself. Mostly because it’s a lot easier than putting yourself out there. Plus, you have a ton of stuff to get through—like figuring out what health plan you want, or how to rollover your 401K. However, I’m going to suggest something a little crazy—and depending on who you are, a lot uncomfortable.
Instead of waiting around for someone (anyone!) to invite you to grab food, take matters into your own hands and invite your boss at some point during your first week. If he or she isn’t available, that’s totally fine. But then ask someone else on your team who’s free, instead.
One, the fact you even asked shows your colleagues you’re someone who wants to get to know the team as well as someone who takes action. Two, the more people you know, and the more names you can attach faces to, the better you’ll feel when you walk into the office each day.