If he / she wishes to hug you or shake hands, please let it happen. If not, that's fine. Your inner child may just need to warm up. Next, you might ask, "What do you need most?" If you communicate with your baby during visualization, the response may be a visceral sensation, rather than a self-talk with school-aged children who may respond verbally. If your inner child tells you what they need, provide them with a safe space. Make them feel heard, seen, understood and loved by you. You may want to share your love and concern for them with them and want them to be taken care of. If your inner child wants to be hugged, hug or hug, seize the opportunity.