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A young man went to seek an important position at a large printing company. He passed the initial interview and was going to meet the director for the final interview. The director saw his resume, it was excellent. And asked,'

"Have you received a scholarship for school?" The boy replied, "No".
'It was your father who paid for your studies? '' Yes.' He replied.
'Where does your father work? ' 'My father is a Blacksmith'

The Director asked the young man to show him his hands.
The young man showed a pair of hands soft and perfect.
'Have you ever helped your parents at their job? '
'Never, my parents always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, he can do the job better than me.

The director said:
'I have got a request: When you go home today, go and wash the hands of your father and then come see me tomorrow morning.'

The young man felt his chance to get the job was high.

When he returned to his house he asked his father if he would allow him to wash his hands.

His father felt strange, happy, but with mixed feelings and showed his hands to his son. The young man washed his hands, little by little. It was the first time that he noticed his father's hands were wrinkled and they had so many scars. Some bruises were so painful that his skin shuddered when he touched them.

This was the first time that the young man recognized what it meant for this pair of hands to work every day to be able to pay for his studies. The bruises on the hands were the price that his father payed for his education, his school activities and his future.

After cleaning his father's hands the young man stood in silence and began to tidy and clean up the workshop. That night, father and son talked for a long time.

The next morning, the young man went to the office of the director.
The Director noticed the tears in the eyes of the young man when He asked him,

'Can you tell me what you did and what you learned yesterday at your house?'
The boy replied: 'I washed my father's hands and when I finished I stayed and cleaned his workshop.'

'Now I know what it is to appreciate and recognize that without my parents, I would not be who I am today. By helping my father I now realize how difficult and hard it is to do something on my own. I have come to appreciate the importance and the value in helping my family.

The director said, "This is what I look for in my people. I want to hire someone who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the hardship others go through to accomplish things, and a person who realizes that money is not his only goal in life".

'You are hired'.

A child that has been coddled, protected and given everything he or she wants, develops a mentality of "I have the right" and will always put himself or herself first, ignoring the efforts of parents, family and friends. If we are this type of protective parent are we really showing love or are we helping to destroy our children?

You can give your child their own room in a big house, good food, a computer, tablet, cell phone, and a big screen TV, but when you're washing the floor or painting a wall, children need to experience that too.

After eating, have them wash the dishes with their brothers and sisters, let them fold laundry or cook with you, pull weeds or mow the lawn. You are not doing this because you are poor and can't afford help. You are doing this because you love them and want them to understand certain things about life.

Children need to learn to appreciate the amount of effort it takes to do a job right. They need to experience the difficulties in life that people must overcome to be successful and they must learn about failure to be able to succeed.

Children must also learn how to work and play with others and that they will not always win, but they can always work harder to reach their goals. If they've done their best, then they can take pride in all the effort they put forth.

Life is about giving and serving and these qualities are taught in our homes.

結果 (中文) 1:

一名年轻男子去寻找重要的地位，在一个大的印刷公司。他通过了最初的面试，正要去接局长的最后面试。主任看他的简历，这是出色的。又问，'"你收到学校奖学金了吗？"男孩回答说，"不"。' 这是你的父亲支付你的学业吗？是的.他回答说。' 你爸爸在哪里工作？' '我的父亲是一位铁匠'主任问年轻人，让他看看他的手。显示一双的手，软和完美的年轻人。' 你曾经帮助过你的父母在他们的工作吗？'从来没有，我的父母总是想让我学习，多读些书。此外，他能比我更好地做这项工作。主任说 ︰' 我有一个请求 ︰ 当你今天回家和洗清你父亲的手，然后来看看我明天早上.'年轻人感到他机会得到这份工作太高。当他回到他家时他问他的父亲他是否会允许他去洗他的手。他的父亲觉得奇怪，快乐，但怀着矛盾的心情和他的手给他的儿子。那个年轻人洗他的手，一点一点。它第一次，他注意到他父亲的手都起皱和他们有这么多伤疤。有些伤痕是如此痛苦，他的皮肤打了一个寒颤时他碰了他们。这第一次，这位年轻人承认意味着，这双手每天上班都要能够支付他的学费。在手上的伤痕是价格，他的父亲为他的教育，他的学校活动和他的未来付出代价。清洗他父亲的手后年轻人静静地站着，开始整理和清理车间。那天晚上，父亲和儿子聊了很长时间。第二天早上，这位年轻人去了主任办公室。主任注意到的那个年轻人眼中的泪水，当他问他，' 你能告诉我你做过什么，昨天的你，听说你家吗？ '男孩回答说: '我父亲的洗手，当我完成了我呆，清洗他的工作坊。现在我知道它是赞赏和表扬，没有我的父母，我也不会是今天。通过帮助我现在意识到我父亲是多么困难和硬要做我自己的东西。我都来欣赏中帮助我的家人的价值和重要性。主任说，"这是我在我的人看。我想要雇佣一个人可以欣赏别人，一个人知道别人如何去完成的事情，困难的帮助，实现了那笔钱的人不是他唯一的人生目标。你被录用。一个孩子已被溺爱、 保护并给予一切他或她想要开发一种"我有权"的心态和总是将自己先把，无视父母、 家人和朋友的努力。如果我们是这种类型的保护父我们真有你的爱或我们正在破坏我们的孩子吗？你可以给你的孩子他们自己的房间在一栋大房子、 好食品、 计算机、 平板电脑、 手机，大屏幕电视，但是当你洗地板或绘画墙上，孩子们需要体会到这一点。吃完后，让他们洗碗与他们的兄弟和姐妹，让他们叠衣服，或用你做饭、 拔草或修剪草坪。你不因为你穷，买不起的帮助，才会这样做。你这样做因为你爱他们，希望他们了解生活的某些东西。孩子们需要学会欣赏的工作量才能做的工作权利。他们需要去体验生活，人必须克服要取得成功，他们必须了解故障能够成功中的困难。儿童还必须学习如何工作，和其他人一起玩，他们会不总是赢，但他们可以总是努力去达到他们的目标。如果他们做了他们最好的然后他们可以在他们提出的所有努力感到自豪。生活是关于给予和服务，这些品质都教我们的家园。

結果 (中文) 3:

在一家大型印刷公司，一个年轻人去寻找一个重要的职位。他通过了初步的面试，并将在最后一次面试中会见导演。导演看了他的简历，很优秀。并问“你获得了学校的奖学金吗？”男孩回答道：“不”。“那是你的父亲是谁支付了你的学习？”“是的，”他回答道。“你爸爸在哪里工作？”我父亲是个铁匠导演让年轻人向他展示双手。年轻人表现出一副温柔的完美的手。你曾经帮助你的父母在他们的工作吗？从来没有，我的父母总是想让我读书，读更多的书。此外，他可以做的工作比我好。导演说：我有一个请求：今天你回家，去洗你父亲的手，然后明天早上来看我。这个年轻人觉得自己得到这份工作的机会很高。当他回到家里时，他问他父亲是否愿意让他洗手。他的父亲感到奇怪，高兴，但有着复杂的感觉，并表明他的手给他的儿子。年轻人洗了手，几乎没有用。这是他第一次注意到他父亲的手上布满了皱纹，他们有那么多的伤疤。有些伤痕是如此的痛苦，他的皮肤战栗当他触摸他们。这是年轻人第一次意识到，这是什么意思，这对这双手工作，每天都能为他的研究支付。手上的伤痕是他父亲支付他的教育价格，他的学校的活动和自己的未来。他父亲的手擦干净后，年轻人安静地站起来，开始整理车间。那天晚上，父亲和儿子谈了很久。第二天早上，年轻人去了主任的办公室。当导演问他时，导演注意到年轻人眼中的泪水，“你能告诉我你昨天在家里学到了什么吗？”男孩回答说：“我洗了我父亲的手，我结束了，我留下来打扫他的工作室。”现在我知道没有父母的感激和认可，我不会成为今天的我。通过帮助我的父亲，我现在知道如何困难和困难，这是我自己做的事情。我已经开始体会到帮助我的家庭的重要性和价值。导演说：“这是我在我的人民中寻找的。我想雇一个能欣赏别人的帮助，一个人知道困难的人去完成事情，和一个人，他认识到钱不是他的唯一目标的生活。“你被录用了”。一种被溺爱的孩子，保护和给予他们想要的一切，建立了一个“我有权”，总是把自己第一的心态，忽略了父母的工作，家庭和朋友。如果我们是这种保护的父母，我们真的表现出了爱，或是我们帮助摧毁我们的孩子？你可以给你的孩子自己的房间，在一个大房子，好的食物，电脑，平板电脑，手机，和一个大屏幕电视，但当你洗地板或画一堵墙，孩子们需要体验。吃完后，他们与他们的兄弟姐妹们洗菜，让他们去洗衣服或做饭你拔杂草或修剪草坪。你不这么做，是因为你很穷，不能提供帮助。你这样做是因为你爱他们，并且希望他们了解生活中的某些事。孩子们需要学习去理解如何去做一份工作的努力。他们需要经历生活中的困难，人们必须克服他们的成功，他们必须学习失败，才能成功。孩子们也必须学会如何与他人合作，并与他人玩耍，他们不会永远赢，但是他们总是努力工作来达到他们的目标。如果他们已经尽力了，那么他们可以为他们提出的所有努力感到自豪。生活是关于给予和服务，这些品质在我们的家里被教导。