It was the end of my first day as a

It was the end of my first day as a waitress in a busy New York restaurant. My cup had gone away, and my feet hurt. The loaded plates I carried seemed to be heavier and heavier. Tired and discouraged, I didn’t seem able to do anything right. As I made out a check for a family with several children who had changed their ice-cream order a dozen times, I was ready to stop. Then the father smiled at me as he handed me my tip. “Well done,” he said, “you’ve looked after us really well.” Suddenly my tiredness disappeared. I smiled back, and later, when the manager asked me how I’d like my first day, I said, “Fine!” Those few words of praise had changed everything. Praise is like sunlight to human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it. and yet, most of us are only too ready to apply to others the cold criticism, but are unwilling to give out fellows the warm sunshine of praise. Perhaps that is why one word of praise can bring such pleasure.
It’s strange how chary we are about praising. Perhaps it’s because few of us know how to accept it. It’s especially rewarding to give praise in areas in which effort generally goes unnoticed．An artist gets admired for a glorious picture，a cook for a perfect meal．But do you ever tell your laundry(洗衣店)manager how pleased you are when the shirts are done just right? In fact，to give praise costs the giver nothing but a moment’s thought and a moment’s effort．

結果 (中文) 1:

这是我第一天，作为一家繁忙的纽约餐馆的女服务员的结局。我的杯子都过去了，和我的脚疼。我进行加载的板似乎是越来越重。疲倦，沮丧，我似乎已经不能做任何事情的权利。我和几个孩子改变了他们的冰淇淋订单十几次亲热一张支票给一个家庭，准备停止。然后父亲向我微笑，因为他把我的小费递给我。"干得好，"他说，"你对我们照顾得很好"。突然我感到疲倦消失了。我回来了，笑了笑，后来，当经理问我怎么样我第一天，我说，"太好了 ！那些几句赞赏的话改变了一切。称赞就像阳光对人的精神;我们不能开花和成长过程中没有它。然而，我们大多数人只太准备适用于别人的冷的批评，但不愿意给别人表扬的温暖阳光。也许这就是为什么一句赞美的话能带来如此快乐。奇怪的是，我们是多么小心谨慎的赞美。也许这是因为我们很少有人知道怎样去接受它。尤其有益的赞美地区人们的努力通常 unnoticed.An 艺术家获取钦佩光荣的图片，厨师为完美的 meal.But 你是否会告诉你洗衣 （洗衣店） 管理器当衬衫熨得很好，你是多么高兴？事实上，给予赞扬花费送礼者什么但是片刻的思索和片刻的努力。

結果 (中文) 3:

这是我作为一个在繁忙的纽约餐厅的女服务员的第一天结束。我的杯子已经走了，我的脚受伤了。我抬的装载的盘子似乎越来越重。累了，气馁，我似乎没有能力做任何事情。当我为一个家庭的几个孩子做了一次检查，他们改变了他们的冰淇淋订单了十几次，我准备停止。然后父亲对我笑了，因为他把我的小费给了我。“做得好，”他说，“你已经很好地照顾我们了，”我突然的疲劳消失了。我笑了笑，后来，当经理问我，我想我的第一天，我说：“好吧，我的第一天，”！这几句赞美的话改变了一切。赞美就像阳光对人类的灵魂，我们不能开花，没有它的成长。然而，我们大多数人只是太准备适用于别人的冷漠的批评，而不愿给别人赞美的温暖的阳光。也许这就是为什么一个词的赞美可以带来这样的快乐。奇怪的是我们对表扬是何其。也许是因为我们中的少数人知道如何接受它。它的领域的努力，往往不被人们注意赞美是特别有益的。一个艺术家得到光荣的图片欣赏，一个完美的餐厨师。但是你告诉过您的衣服（洗衣店）经理很高兴当你的衬衫都做到了吗？事实上，给予赞美是付出代价的，给予者只不过是一个瞬间的想法和时刻的努力。