Hi kitten, woke up after a few hours sleep .I have been thinking about my friends in australia who have been outstandingly supportive , they really care about me .You have also been amazingly supportive in these past 11 weeks. This is kinda unbelievable because you didn’t know me at all and we are only now getting to know each other .So you have been acting like the friends I have known for years but even more so .. we talk almost every days , it feels like an intimate long established relationship. I can’t thank you enough but I will try . I would like to find a place ( s ) that you feel comfortable and relaxed in around ubud . Where the space at home means you feel like studying but it’s close enough especially in the first 10 days where you can go out and do your own thing when you need to.So i need your help on the places we choose .It’s low ( rainy season ) so space and mosquito nets are more important than a pool .I am ready for a committed adult relationship, I am looking for my soul mate . We have time .While I am adjusting to the asian version of committed relationship, I would like your input into big decisions , so I am still western in that sense .I really value your input and this has been assumption with my previous relationships apart from Biyoa who was v reluctant to take responsibility for decisions, even part responsibility.I don’t know how it worked with you and stuart / Filip but I am just making it clear that even though I maybe paying for the accommodation, now and in the future where we stay is a joint decision . This would also apply to where we live , work we choose if it means time apart , or one of us feels the work choice is bad for the others general well being .I am just saying this to make it clear .. Lots of assumptions I made about relationships were just not valid in Biyoa’s case and vice versa . Xx