假設情境：甲男（不是基督徒）認識乙女（不成熟的基督徒）後，對她甜言蜜語

假設情境：
甲男（不是基督徒）認識乙女（不成熟的基督徒）後，對她甜言蜜語、大獻殷勤，令乙女很感動，
於是乙女選擇「試婚」（先同居一段時間），半年後甲男通過「考驗」而與乙女結婚。
婚後甲男才露出本性的另一面（喜怒無常：今天甜言蜜語，明天言語暴力）；
乙女因為很珍惜這段婚姻而忍受下去。
今年甲男為了家庭經濟問題的解決方案而堅持己見、言語暴力，甚至以「離婚」做為威脅手段。
乙女難過得找好友訴苦。
問題：
若你是這對夫妻的好朋友，你會對雙方各提出什麼建議？

結果 (英文) 1:

Assumptions:Male (not Christians) know b female (immature Christians), her sweet nothings, courting, b female was moved,B female choice "trial marriage" (living together for some time), six months after the man through the "tests" and b female and married.Married men revealed the nature of the other side (Moody: sweet today, tomorrow, verbal abuse);B female treasure marriage and live with it.Man of the year for family solutions to economic problems and wrong-headed, verbal violence, even to "divorce" as a threat.B women upset friend complained.Problem:If you are a good friend of the couple, you will each put forward any suggestions?

結果 (英文) 2:

Hypothetical Situations:
A man (not Christian) know Otome (immature Christians) after her sweet, gallant, so Otome was moved,
so after Otome select "trial marriage" (cohabitation period of time), half armor M by "test" and get married and Maiden.
A married man was showing the other side of nature (Moody: sweet today, tomorrow verbal violence);
Otome because cherish marriage and endure.
A solution to this male family economic problems and opinionated, verbal violence, and even "divorce" as a means of threat.
Otome sad to find friends complained.
Question:
If you are a couple of good friends, you will have each side put forward any suggestions?

結果 (英文) 3:

Hypothetical situation:
a man (not a Christian) understanding Otome (immature Christians), on her sweet talk, gallant, Otome very touched,
in Otome choose "trial marriage" (to live together for a period of time), half a year after a male by "tested" and Otome married.
married a man reveal the nature of the other side (the moody: Sweet today tomorrow verbal violence);
Otome because cherish this period of marriage and endure it.
this year a male to family economic problem solutions and adhere to the opinions, verbal abuse, even to "divorce" as threatening. Our sad to find friends complain
. Question:
If you are a good friend of the couple, what advice would you put forward on both sides?