《弟子规》中提出“亲有过，谏使更，怡吾色，柔吾声。谏不入，悦复谏，号泣

《弟子规》中提出“亲有过，谏使更，怡吾色，柔吾声。谏不入，悦复谏，号泣随，挞无怨。”对于我们而言，是否完全满足父母的需求就是尽了孝道了，是否父母所有的要求都是对的，如果不对我们是否也要听从？这还是不是尽了孝道？在明知道父母错了的基础上，“孝”子是不应该不分是非曲直而盲目的服从父母之命的。并不是我们为了更正父母的错误而进行劝谏导致父母不愉快就不孝了，对于劝谏的行为也是对“孝”深层次的要求和追求，如何使父母在愉快的心情下听从我们的劝谏也是孝行的表现。

結果 (英文) 1:

The GUI in the "Pro, Jian, Yi Wu, soft as I sound. Jian into the Yue Fu Jian, cry with, tart without complaining. "For our part, fully meet the needs of parents is best filial piety, all requirements is whether parents, if not do we listen to? This is not all of filial piety? Knowing parents are wrong on the basis of "filial piety" and should not be blinded by the merits of the subject's parents. Is not our advice to parent error is corrected, however has led to unpleasant parents lack of filial piety, for advice on "filial piety" requirements and pursuit of deeper, how to make parents heed the admonition in a happy mood and expression of filial piety.

結果 (英文) 3:

The "disciple gauge" proposed "Pro had the suggestion that more, Yi my color, my voice soft. Jian Yue after doing nothing, and with no tears, no blame tart." For us, whether to meet the needs of parents is to do the filial piety, whether all the requirements of the parents are right, if we do not have to listen to? This is not to do the filial piety? In knowing that the parents are wrong based on "filial piety" is should not blindly obey their parents regardless of the right and wrong. Is not our in order to correct the mistakes of their parents and to remonstrate cause parents unhappy is unfilial, for the admonition of behavior is of "filial piety" deep and the pursuit of the requirements, how to make parents to follow our admonition is filial piety in a happy mood.