宽容，首先要能容人言。人言有褒贬诤馋之分，褒奖之语，应多责自己的不足之

宽容，首先要能容人言。人言有褒贬诤馋之分，褒奖之语，应多责自己的不足之处、不明之事，才不至于在褒举重跌落下来。贬抑之语，无论多么残酷、无稽，也要坦然处之。大将军韩信的“胯下之辱”无疑是对大将军驰骋天下、成就伟业的胸襟的一种锤炼。诤言更要珍惜，在当今社会，每个人的个性都有了肆意张扬的环境，难免会有不经意的膨胀。诤友诤言无异于苦口良药，着实难得，更要听得进、记得住、改得快。最害人的要是谗言，尤其是有了地位、有了有求于你的人后，易被谗言的甜蜜伤及元气。乾隆是一国之君，可以说有宽容之量，他容得和坤的媚语搔痒，却更懂得用纪晓岚的诤言来进行“中和”和“补偿”，以维持一种心理的平衡。所以，语言是人与人交往的首要工具，宽容之人要善听、善辨、善纳、善弃，兼听则明，偏听则暗，不可偏薄。

結果 (英文) 1:

Tolerance, first of all to allow listener. Received mixed criticism also CHAN, praised the language of responsibilities of its own shortcomings, unknown things so as not to praise weights fell. Language of humble, no matter how cruel, ridiculous, and frankly. General Han Xin's "kuaxiazhiru" is for General riding world, great things a temper of mind. Giveth to cherish, in today's society, everyone's personality with indiscriminate publicity environment inevitably expect them to expand. Friends giveth, amounted to a bitter medicine, really rare, but also to listen to, remember, change faster. Most harmful attacks, especially those with status, after you have a person who asks you, was hurt by a calumny sweetness and vitality. Qianlong was Emperor, can be said to have tolerance, his room and Kun Mei language scratch, but also know how to use Ji Xiaolan giveth to "and" and "compensation" to maintain a balance of mind. Therefore, the language is the primary tool of communication from person to person, Catholic people to be nice, good differentiation, good and satisfied, good performing, listen, to listen to the dark, not too thin.

結果 (英文) 3:

Tolerance, first to tolerate words. Praise or blame admonish greedy, one"s words, the language of praise should be more responsible for their own shortcomings, unknown, as not to praise weightlifting in the fall. Derogatory words, no matter how cruel and ridiculous, also at home. Energy-saving "kuaxiazhiru" is undoubtedly a temper of generals, achievement to surf the world mind. Forthright admonition to treasure, in today"s society, each person"s personality have wanton publicity of environment, hard to avoid can inadvertently expansion. Friend forthtelling is really rare, more A good medicine tastes bitter., to listen, remember, change quickly. The most harmful if calumny, especially with the status, the demand for your people, easy to be sweet and vitality of calumny. Qianlong is Prince of a country, it can be said that the amount of tolerance, he let and Kun Mei language itching, would know how the harbinger of Ji Xiaolan of "Neutralization" and "compensation", in order to maintain a psychological balance. So, language is the primary tool for people to interact with people, tolerance to good listening, contend, Shanna, abandon good. Hear all parties, not too thin.