This goes out to every Girl - think

This goes out to every Girl - think about it and I hope it helps many . I so do agree with her WORDS......... HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts..

By: Oprah Winfrey

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結果 (中文) 1:

这首歌献给每一个女孩 — — 考虑一下，我希望它能帮助很多人。我很同意她的话......听到奥普拉 · 温弗瑞不得不对男人说:如果一个男人想要你，没有什么可以让他离开。如果他不想你，没有什么可以让他留下。停止为一个男人和他的行为找借口。让你的直觉 (或精神) 来拯救你的心痛。不要试图为一种关系，并不意味着要改变自己。慢是更好。永远不会住你的生活一个人之前，你找到什么让你真正快乐。如果一段关系结束，因为这个人不视为你应得的爱到底不，你不能"做朋友"。朋友不会虐待一个朋友。不要满足。如果你觉得他在耍你，然后他可能是。不要因为你认为"它会变得更好"。一年后，入住时的事情并不好你会生自己的气。您可以控制在一种关系的唯一的人是你。避免有一群孩子由一群不同女人的男人。他没有娶她们，当他把他们怀孕，为什么他会对你任何不同吗?总是有自己的朋友分开他集。在保持界限男人怎么对待你。如果你觉得不舒服，说出来。永远不会让一个男人知道一切。他将稍后使用对你不利。你不能改变一个人的行为。变化来自于内在。不要让他觉得他是比你的更重要。即使他有了更多的教育或更好的工作。不让他进准神。他是一个人，不多也不少。Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a newrelationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLEindividuals. Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts..作者: 奥普拉 · 温弗瑞像 ☑ &  份额

結果 (中文) 3:

这对每个女孩都会去想，我希望它能帮助很多。我不同意她的话.........听温弗莉奥普拉说了什么关于男人的事：如果一个人想要你，没有什么能让他离开。如果他不想要你，没有什么能让他留下来。不要为男人和他的行为找借口。让你的直觉（或精神）来拯救你的心痛。不要试图改变自己的关系，这是不意味着。慢的是更好。永远不要为一个男人过你的生活，在你找到真正快乐的东西之前。如果一段感情结束了，因为那个人没有把你当你，那么你就不能“做朋友”。朋友不会让朋友

不解决。如果你觉得他欺骗了你，那么他很可能是。不要停留，因为你认为“它会变得更好”，你会为自己的一年后，当事情不好的时候，你会生气。你唯一能控制的人就是你。避免那些有一群小孩的男人。当他怀孕的时候，他没有嫁给他们，为什么他会对你有什么不同？总是有你自己的一组朋友分开他。保持界限，在一个人如何对待你。如果有什么事烦扰你，大声说。永远不要让男人知道一切。他以后会用它来对付你的，你不能改变一个人的行为。变化来自内部。永远不要让他觉得他比你重要。即使他有更多的教育或在一个更好的工作。不要使他变成一个准神。他是一个男人，没有什么更没有。永远不要借用别人的人。如果他欺骗了你，他会欺骗你。一个男人只会让你的方式让他来对待你。所有男人都不是狗，你不应该做所有的弯曲的人…妥协是双向的街道。你需要时间去弥合关系。行李里没有什么可爱的东西…在追求新的人际关系之前处理你的问题。你不应该找人来完成你。一个关系由两个整体的人组成。寻找某人免费赠送……而不是补充…即使他没有把自己变成一位先生。有时让他想你…当一个人总是知道你在哪里，你总是很容易得到他，他认为这是理所当然的。永远不要进入他母亲的家。永远不要为一个人签名。不要完全承诺一个不给你一切你需要的人。让他在你的雷达，但了解别人。

害怕独处是什么让很多女人保持关系，虐待或伤害：菲尔博士说…你应该知道：你曾经可以发生在任何人身上，如果有人欺负你的最好的东西，他就会错过一件好事。如果他在第一个地方被你吸引，只知道他不是唯一的一个。他们都在注视着你，所以你有很多选择。做一个正确的人。女士们的照顾你自己的心。

：奥普拉温弗莉

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