You have to share with your true heart. They can tell whether you’re sincere or not. Care, trust, believe it! Treat everyone like your Tao Kin and Family. Balance everything. I have a few friends that I always invite and I make them feel like my family is good, so they come over often. Now, I bring Tao energy home, so my kids now, they ask if I’m going to temple. People around you will change when they see your efforts.