The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Women
I'd like to share with you a list of deadly common
mistakes that guys make with women. These TOTALLY
hose any chance of 'getting a bit more comfortable' with
hot girls – or any female for that matter. It's mostly good
ole' common sense, but hey... we are men...
THE TOP 10 DEADLY MISTAKES
THAT GUYS MAKE WITH WOMEN
MISTAKE #1: Making Your Move Before She's
Ready
We've all been there...
You have these intense feelings for a woman, and you
think "If she only knew how I felt, she would like me
back"...
And if you're like most men, you've tried this, and you
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realize it NEVER works in your favor. In fact, the very act
of telling her your 'feelings' can be a huge turn-off to
women.
It's much more effective when SHE makes the first move,
that way you can sit back and let HER do most of the
work.
In fact, a girlfriend of mine just said this to me the other
day:
She said "I'd rather be IN LOVE with a guy than BE
LOVED by a guy."
It might be counter-intuitive, but when you've seen the
research on the differences between men and women,
you realize it's simply our biological programming.
Women are MUCH more turned on when they are the
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ones chasing YOU instead of the other way around
(Not to mention, it's a whole lot easier too...)
MISTAKE #2: Focusing Too Much Energy On
Your Skills In The Bedroom
This used to be a huge insecurity for me...
A few years back, I went through a pretty bad breakup...
And because my ex girlfriend never told me the real
reason she lost interest, I assumed it was related to my
"performance" in the bedroom...
I got pretty depressed about the whole thing, and it really
hurt my self-esteem.
It wasn't until recently I realized I had it all backwards...
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Pleasure starts in a woman's MIND... Not in her body...
In fact, the first time I had a woman attracted to me on a
deep, primal level using Pandora's Box, I was able to
make her climax OVER THE PHONE!
MISTAKE #3: Thinking Attraction Is Based
Mostly On Looks
Ever seen a really ugly guy with a smoking hot girlfriend?
Of course you have... We've all seen it happen...
And even though I've seen it dozens of times growing up,
I STILL used to think that attraction was mostly about
looks.
Yet -- it wasn't until I was able to get a smoking hot
girlfriend for myself that I was actually able to shake this
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belief...
I still have to talk to Vin about this, but I'm pretty sure the
reason why men think this way is because that's how WE
become attracted...
We see a hot girl with a great body, and hell... we're
ready to get married!!
And so logically we assume that attraction works the
same exact way for women... But it doesn't. Not by a long
shot...
In fact... if you've ever had a woman who liked you but
then changed her mind because you said the wrong
thing...
...it's basically the equivalent of being with a smoking hot
girl who suddenly gets 30 years older, gains 100 pounds
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and grows a beard!
Yup it's THAT important...
I'd rather be a bald, overweight, 75 year old guy with a
deep understanding of the female mind than a tall,
athletic male model ANY DAY OF THE WEEK!
(Sure, everything else being equal, a chiseled jawline
and ripped abs will help, but it's more like icing on the
cake... Without the actual cake there's only so much of it
you can handle before you throw up!)
Because let's face it... no matter how tall, ripped and
good looking a guy is, he's still REPULSIVE to a woman
if he doesn't have a basic understanding of the
psychology of attraction...
MISTAKE #4: Chasing Women and Showing Too
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Much Interest
When someone says the word "chasing" it's very
important that you understand what it means.
When you're talking about dating, the word chasing is
basically understood to mean EMOTIONAL chasing...
So this could mean anything from calling or texting her
too much, buying her too many unexpected gifts, or even
giving her too many compliments...
It's more of an ENERGY thing above anything else... It's
something that women can feel.
And trust me, women are VERY sensitive to this type of
thing.
When a woman senses that you're CHASING HER,
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here's what goes on inside her mind:
"Ok. It's pretty obvious I've got this guy wrapped around
my finger. And yeah he might be a decent guy, but
because I can have him whenever, I'm going to see what
else is out there first..."
You have made yourself one of her OPTIONS... And let's
face it, if she's an attractive woman, she has plenty of
options.
After getting to know many attractive women in my own
life, I've realized something that would shock most men...
The average woman has no less than a THREE guys
who are chasing her at any given time in her life... (and if
she's actively going out and meeting people, the number
can be MUCH higher!)
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That's why it's so important for you to be the ONE GUY
that's so valuable that SHE CHASES YOU...
MISTAKE #5: Not Understanding How Women
Think
You probably already realize that men and women think
VERY differently from one another...
A man and woman can have two completely different
impressions of the same exact experience!
I remember getting stuck in an elevator with a girlfriend a
couple months ago, and after we got out, I realized that
while I was like focused on logical things like how to get
the doors open, or how to get peoples attention if it was
stuck for a long time...
She was immersed in the different emotions of the
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experience! She was experiencing fear, and at the same
time, forming an emotional bond with me and the other
couple in the elevator based on all of us sharing a scary
situation together!
The point is, while men's thinking is dominated by logic
and reason, a woman's mind is dominated and directed
by EMOTION.
And quite often, her thoughts and feelings don't even
make sense to HER!
That's why having a man who TRULY understands the
female mind on a deep level is SO RARE AND
VALUABLE to her...
...just like having a TOP MECHANIC is extremely
valuable to a RACE CAR DRIVER...
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And even though Pandora's Box was initially created to
develop mind reading tactics, it comes with a
STAGGERING side effect...
You're going to know her EVEN BETTER THAN SHE
KNOWS HERSELF...
In fact that's a big part of what I talk about in the
Pandora's Box Video
MISTAKE #6: Impressing Women And Bragging
I get it...
You work hard on something, you want to be respected
for it, right?
Yeah of course, we're MEN. That's what we do...
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We get a promotion at work, we make some money, get
some nice things, or we create something amazing, we
want to let people know about it!
That's fine! You are certainly entitled to get your fair
share of recognition...
But there's one big catch:
NEVER brag, or try to impress the woman you're trying to
attract...
WHY?
Because to a woman, this comes off like a HUGE
insecurity... (or an insecurity about something that's not
huge at all, if you catch my drift)
And even if you think you've got the most clever way of
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indirectly letting her know... DON'T DO IT!
She'll smell it a mile away... Women have a 'sixth sense'
for male insecurities.
Trust me on this one...
MISTAKE #7: Waiting For 'Destiny'
Don't laugh...
Now I'm not sure if it comes from watching too many
romantic comedies or listening to my mom...
As a young man growing up, I kind of always had it in the
back of my mind that 'the one' would just someday
magically show up in my life...
I'm dead serious here...
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I really believed that if I just focused on my own life, at
some point when I was spiritually ready, my soulmate
and I would bump into each other through some random
chance and live happily ever after...
What a crock!
The ONLY WAY you're going to end up with that
AMAZING, woman who's totally compatible with you is to
GET EXPERIENCE dating several different women so
that you can CHOOSE the one you like best!
Ok ok... Now before you start calling me cynical, on some
level I can agree...
YES, it's totally possible you'll bump into your soulmate
while you're out grocery shopping or at the mall...
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But when you do...
Don't you think you'll have a much better shot at getting
her if you know exactly what to say?
Yup.
MISTAKE #8: Being The Nice Guy
When I was really struggling with women and frustrated
with dating this confused the hell out of me...
How come women are always talking about how they just
want to find a "NICE GUY" but somehow always end up
stuck with abusive losers and jerks?
It never made sense to me... until recently that is.
I was out at a party with my girlfriend and a few of her
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friends...
And after a couple drinks her best friend started
COMPLAINING about all the jerks she was dating, and
how she just wants to find a NICE GUY...
I asked my girlfriend about it later, and here's what she
told me:
"Oh yeah, that's just what girls are supposed to say. It
makes us look sweet and vulnerable to want a nice guy...
but the truth is, women don't FEEL ANYTHING for nice
guys. So most of us would rather date a jerk."
Fortunately, you don't have to be a jerk to trigger
powerful emotions in a woman...
MISTAKE #9: Making Excuses For Y
The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenI'd like to share with you a list of deadly commonmistakes that guys make with women. These TOTALLYhose any chance of 'getting a bit more comfortable' withhot girls – or any female for that matter. It's mostly goodole' common sense, but hey... we are men...THE TOP 10 DEADLY MISTAKESTHAT GUYS MAKE WITH WOMENMISTAKE #1: Making Your Move Before She'sReadyWe've all been there...You have these intense feelings for a woman, and youthink "If she only knew how I felt, she would like meback"...And if you're like most men, you've tried this, and you~ Page 1 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenrealize it NEVER works in your favor. In fact, the very actof telling her your 'feelings' can be a huge turn-off towomen.It's much more effective when SHE makes the first move,that way you can sit back and let HER do most of thework.In fact, a girlfriend of mine just said this to me the otherday:She said "I'd rather be IN LOVE with a guy than BELOVED by a guy."It might be counter-intuitive, but when you've seen theresearch on the differences between men and women,you realize it's simply our biological programming.Women are MUCH more turned on when they are the~ Page 2 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenones chasing YOU instead of the other way around(Not to mention, it's a whole lot easier too...)MISTAKE #2: Focusing Too Much Energy OnYour Skills In The BedroomThis used to be a huge insecurity for me...A few years back, I went through a pretty bad breakup...And because my ex girlfriend never told me the realreason she lost interest, I assumed it was related to my"performance" in the bedroom...I got pretty depressed about the whole thing, and it reallyhurt my self-esteem.It wasn't until recently I realized I had it all backwards...~ Page 3 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenPleasure starts in a woman's MIND... Not in her body...In fact, the first time I had a woman attracted to me on adeep, primal level using Pandora's Box, I was able tomake her climax OVER THE PHONE!MISTAKE #3: Thinking Attraction Is BasedMostly On LooksEver seen a really ugly guy with a smoking hot girlfriend?Of course you have... We've all seen it happen...And even though I've seen it dozens of times growing up,I STILL used to think that attraction was mostly aboutlooks.Yet -- it wasn't until I was able to get a smoking hotgirlfriend for myself that I was actually able to shake this~ Page 4 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenbelief...I still have to talk to Vin about this, but I'm pretty sure thereason why men think this way is because that's how WEbecome attracted...We see a hot girl with a great body, and hell... we'reready to get married!!And so logically we assume that attraction works thesame exact way for women... But it doesn't. Not by a long射擊......事實上......如果你曾經有一個女人喜歡你,但然後改變她的主意,因為你說的錯事.........它基本上是在一起熱氣騰騰的等效突然獲取 30 歲的女孩獲得 100 磅~ 頁 5 ~十大致命,夥計們犯的錯與婦女和一把鬍子 !是啊,這是重要......我寧願與一個禿頭、 超重、 75 歲的傢伙身材高大,比女人的心思的深刻理解運動的男性模型這一周的任何一天 !(當然,一切東西都一樣,輪廓分明的下巴和結實的腹肌會有説明,但更像是錦上添花蛋糕...沒有實際的蛋糕都有它的只有這麼多您可以處理之前,你扔 !)因為讓我們面對...無論多高,撕裂和好看的傢伙,他仍然是令人厭惡的女人如果他沒有基本的瞭解心理學的吸引力......錯誤 #4: 追逐女人和露出來了~ 第 6 頁 ~十大致命,夥計們犯的錯與婦女多大的興趣當有人說"追"這個詞是非常重要的是你明白它的意思。當你談論約會時,詞追逐是基本上理解為是指情感追逐......所以這可能意味著任何從電話或發短信她太多了,買她太多的意外的禮物,甚至她太多的讚美。它是東西的更多的能量,勝過其他任何東西...它具有婦女能感覺到的東西。And trust me, women are VERY sensitive to this type ofthing.When a woman senses that you're CHASING HER,~ Page 7 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenhere's what goes on inside her mind:"Ok. It's pretty obvious I've got this guy wrapped aroundmy finger. And yeah he might be a decent guy, butbecause I can have him whenever, I'm going to see whatelse is out there first..."You have made yourself one of her OPTIONS... And let'sface it, if she's an attractive woman, she has plenty ofoptions.After getting to know many attractive women in my ownlife, I've realized something that would shock most men...The average woman has no less than a THREE guyswho are chasing her at any given time in her life... (and ifshe's actively going out and meeting people, the numbercan be MUCH higher!)~ Page 8 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenThat's why it's so important for you to be the ONE GUYthat's so valuable that SHE CHASES YOU...MISTAKE #5: Not Understanding How WomenThinkYou probably already realize that men and women thinkVERY differently from one another...A man and woman can have two completely differentimpressions of the same exact experience!I remember getting stuck in an elevator with a girlfriend acouple months ago, and after we got out, I realized thatwhile I was like focused on logical things like how to getthe doors open, or how to get peoples attention if it wasstuck for a long time...She was immersed in the different emotions of the~ Page 9 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenexperience! She was experiencing fear, and at the sametime, forming an emotional bond with me and the othercouple in the elevator based on all of us sharing a scarysituation together!The point is, while men's thinking is dominated by logicand reason, a woman's mind is dominated and directedby EMOTION.And quite often, her thoughts and feelings don't evenmake sense to HER!That's why having a man who TRULY understands thefemale mind on a deep level is SO RARE ANDVALUABLE to her......just like having a TOP MECHANIC is extremelyvaluable to a RACE CAR DRIVER...~ Page 10 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenAnd even though Pandora's Box was initially created todevelop mind reading tactics, it comes with aSTAGGERING side effect...You're going to know her EVEN BETTER THAN SHEKNOWS HERSELF...In fact that's a big part of what I talk about in thePandora's Box VideoMISTAKE #6: Impressing Women And BraggingI get it...You work hard on something, you want to be respectedfor it, right?Yeah of course, we're MEN. That's what we do...~ Page 11 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenWe get a promotion at work, we make some money, getsome nice things, or we create something amazing, wewant to let people know about it!That's fine! You are certainly entitled to get your fairshare of recognition...But there's one big catch:NEVER brag, or try to impress the woman you're trying toattract...WHY?Because to a woman, this comes off like a HUGEinsecurity... (or an insecurity about something that's nothuge at all, if you catch my drift)And even if you think you've got the most clever way of~ Page 12 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenindirectly letting her know... DON'T DO IT!She'll smell it a mile away... Women have a 'sixth sense'for male insecurities.Trust me on this one...MISTAKE #7: Waiting For 'Destiny'Don't laugh...Now I'm not sure if it comes from watching too manyromantic comedies or listening to my mom...As a young man growing up, I kind of always had it in theback of my mind that 'the one' would just somedaymagically show up in my life...I'm dead serious here...~ Page 13 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenI really believed that if I just focused on my own life, atsome point when I was spiritually ready, my soulmateand I would bump into each other through some randomchance and live happily ever after...What a crock!The ONLY WAY you're going to end up with thatAMAZING, woman who's totally compatible with you is toGET EXPERIENCE dating several different women sothat you can CHOOSE the one you like best!Ok ok... Now before you start calling me cynical, on somelevel I can agree...YES, it's totally possible you'll bump into your soulmatewhile you're out grocery shopping or at the mall...~ Page 14 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With WomenBut when you do...Don't you think you'll have a much better shot at gettingher if you know exactly what to say?Yup.MISTAKE #8: Being The Nice GuyWhen I was really struggling with women and frustratedwith dating this confused the hell out of me...How come women are always talking about how they justwant to find a "NICE GUY" but somehow always end upstuck with abusive losers and jerks?It never made sense to me... until recently that is.I was out at a party with my girlfriend and a few of her~ Page 15 ~The Top 10 Deadly Mistakes That Guys Make With Womenfriends...And after a couple drinks her best friend startedCOMPLAINING about all the jerks she was dating, andhow she just wants to find a NICE GUY...I asked my girlfriend about it later, and here's what shetold me:"Oh yeah, that's just what girls are supposed to say. Itmakes us look sweet and vulnerable to want a nice guy...but the truth is, women don't FEEL ANYTHING for niceguys. So most of us would rather date a jerk."Fortunately, you don't have to be a jerk to triggerpowerful emotions in a woman...MISTAKE #9: Making Excuses For Y
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