Is your mobile phone directory (电话簿

Is your mobile phone directory (电话簿) full of phone numbers of people you don't really want to talk to? Do you go out with people from work or school more often than with your real friends? Do you say “yes” to invitations because you think you should,not because you want to? If you say yes to at least two of these questions,then perhaps you need to “edit your friends”.

Nowadays people like to spend a lot of time with people at work or classmates at school. The result is that we don't have enough time to see our real,close friends. As our lives get busier,it becomes more important to spend the little free time we have with people we really want to see,people we love and who really love us.

Who are the friends you need to edit? A few years ago,I read a book about how to get rid of unnecessary possessions (物品) .It said you should ask yourself about each thing you have： Is it useful? Do I like it? Do I feel better every time I look at it? If the answer is no to any of those questions,you should throw it away. Maybe we should ask similar questions about our friends. What kind of friends will you probably need to edit? Sometimes it's an old friend. Somebody who you used to have a lot in common with,but who,when you meet now,you have very little or nothing to say to. Or it might be a new friend who you get on quite well with,but who is taking up too much of your time. Next time one of these people calls you and suggests a meeting,think ”Do I really want to see this person?and if the answer is no,say no. In that way you will have more time to spend with your real friends.

結果 (中文) 1:

是你手机目录 （电话簿） 充满你真的不想说话的电话号码吗？做你和别人出去从工作或上学更经常比你真正的朋友？做你说"yes"邀请因为你认为你应该做，不是因为你想要吗？如果你对这些问题至少两个说是的那么也许你需要"编辑你的朋友"。现在人们喜欢花大量的时间与人在工作或在学校的同学。结果是，我们没有足够的时间来看看我们真正的亲密的朋友。我们的生活越来越忙，随着，更重要的是花的时间不多，我们有我们想要见到，我们爱的人，谁真正爱我们的人。 Who are the friends you need to edit? A few years ago,I read a book about how to get rid of unnecessary possessions (物品) .It said you should ask yourself about each thing you have： Is it useful? Do I like it? Do I feel better every time I look at it? If the answer is no to any of those questions,you should throw it away. Maybe we should ask similar questions about our friends. What kind of friends will you probably need to edit? Sometimes it's an old friend. Somebody who you used to have a lot in common with,but who,when you meet now,you have very little or nothing to say to. Or it might be a new friend who you get on quite well with,but who is taking up too much of your time. Next time one of these people calls you and suggests a meeting,think ”Do I really want to see this person?and if the answer is no,say no. In that way you will have more time to spend with your real friends.

結果 (中文) 3:

是你的手机目录（电话簿）充满了人你不电话真的想吗？你和你的真正的朋友一起去上班或上学吗？你说“是”的邀请，因为你认为你应该，而不是因为你想？如果你说是的，至少有两个这些问题，那么也许你需要“编辑你的朋友”。如今，人们喜欢在学校里和同学们一起呆上很多时间。其结果是，我们没有足够的时间来看到我们的真实的，亲密的朋友。我们的生活越来越忙碌，这花点时间我们有我们真正想看的越来越重要，我们所爱的人和那些真正爱我们的人。你需要编辑的朋友是谁？几年前，我读了一本关于如何摆脱不必要的财产（物品）。它说，你应该问自己每一件你有：它有用吗？我喜欢它吗？每次我看它时，我感觉更好吗？如果答案是没有这些问题的任何一，你应该扔掉它。也许我们应该问我们的朋友类似的问题。你可能需要编辑什么样的朋友？有时是一个老朋友。曾经与你有很多共同点的人，但谁，当你遇到现在，你有很少或没有什么要说。或者它可能是一个新的朋友，你相处得很好，但谁占用了你太多的时间。下一次，这些人打电话给你，并建议一个会议，想“我真的想看到这个人吗？”如果答案是不，说没有，这样你就可以有更多的时间和你真正的朋友在一起了。